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Dating As A Widow

We get a fair number of questions from women who are widows – that is, women whose girlfriend, partner or wife has died. If you’re in that situation, you may be facing some challenges. (And even if you haven’t lost a partner to death, you may still find parts of this email relevant to you.) …

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Is She Really Out There?

Many women we talk to and work with feel as if they will never find the person they are looking for. They are discouraged, and some have even given up looking altogether. We actually think that there is someone for everyone, but there are things that get in the way. First, there are beliefs about …

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Dating is Risky!

Dating feels risky. It feels risky to reach out to someone and ask them out. It feels risky to put your profile online. It feels risky to be vulnerable. Dating feels risky. But is dating really risky? What are you really risking when you dive into this thing called “dating?” The actual, real risk of …

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How to Repair Broken Trust

Recently, I had a major episode of broken trust that I want to share with you… and offer some lessons from. I was traveling in Bali, because Michelle was going to see old friends in western Massachusetts, so I took off for warmer, tropical climes, which are not really Michelle’s cup of tea. So this trust-breaking happened with my traveling …

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Quiz: Do You Have A Broken Picker?

If you have a “broken picker,” it means you pick the wrong women – an all-too-common issue which leads to pain, confusion and despair about relationships. There are a number of different reasons why your “picker” might be malfunctioning. So, ask yourself the following questions: 1) Am I clear on the difference between limerence and love? If …

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Is It OK To Want Love And Sex Without A Capital-R “Relationship”?

Some people think we’re the poster children for “Capital-R relationships,” but we’re not. We’re actually dedicated to helping you get what you want, whatever that may be. How do you want love and sex fit into your life? Maybe you want one – or several – “friends with benefits” relationships. Maybe you want a solid community …

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