Compatibility

Why Coffee Dates Can Be Dangerous

For centuries people have believed that romantic love is a mystery: it  can’t be predicted, it can’t be controlled, and it doesn’t necessarily make sense. Still,  it’s one of the most powerful forces in our lives. Even when we can logically see that someone isn’t good for us, if our hearts tug us toward Ms. …

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“Aren’t relationships always hard work? It doesn’t seem worth it any more.”

Dear C.G., I don’t understand the statement on your retreat page about learning to create “a relationship that just works, rather than one that feels like hard work.” Aren’t relationships always hard work? (It sure seems like it to me!) After all, two people are always going to be different and have different needs. Sometimes …

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“My gf hardly ever wants to talk on the phone!” “My gf ALWAYS wants to talk on the phone!”

“We live in different towns, and Susan hardly ever wants to talk on the phone,” Elise said tearfully. “It makes me feel so rejected, like I’m not worthy of her time and attention.” “I love Elise, but I’ve got a really busy life,” Susan explained. “Talking on the phone sometimes feels like too much at …

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The 8 Most Common Lesbian Relationship Problems – And Conscious Solutions

Don’t Let Coronavirus Stop You! You Can Still Connect With Amazing Women. Join Our Virtual Community Here Yes, tell me more! Problem #1 – Committing Too Fast (a.k.a. The U-Haul)When women get attracted to each other, we go into limerence, a brain-chemistry high that feels like being in love. (All couples are affected by limerence, …

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